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The Greatest Privilege

It’s Friday morning. Bon Iver sings over me sweet melodies, calling me out of my slumber in the worst way. I’m at my desk, and I’ve opened our blinds for the first time in two months. We live directly across from a 24/7 fitness center with glass walls. You might imagine the intimidation that results from open blinds… The sky is beginning its metamorphosis. And it’s beautiful. Sometimes the sky just blows me away. God is a true artist. It’s casual Friday, which means my extra-fine husband is a walking Express ad. (I love Fridays.) And for the first time in quite some time, I have the weekend off. Like every free weekend, I will try to convince Dylan to take me to the aquarium. It probably won’t happen, but just the idea makes me happy. (P.S. I really, really want a baby turtle.)

Which brings me to the point of this haphazard post. Life is good. I’ve been so blessed to enjoy some of the most ordinary, yet beautiful things in life. Bon Iver. Fresh mornings. And one mighty good-looking husband. This week in particular has gotten me all reflective and sappy and, if you can believe it, even more Alyse-like. (Case in point: I cried at an Oreo commercial just the other day. Yeah.. I know.) The icing on the cake was receiving brownies from a client’s mother (an absolute stranger to me) who lives more than a thousand miles away. She thanked me for making her daughter and soon-to-be son so happy with their engagement images. That’s it. Just happy. Oreo cookies, or gourmet fudge brownies, you can only assume my reaction..

I am just so thankful to be doing what I do. Often times I get consumed in the editing, the marketing, the planning. And then clients come along, who validate what I do and why I do it, over and over again. I asked Patricia, daughter of brownie-momma, if I could share this message she sent me a couple weeks ago. Because it rocked my world. And because it made me so ridiculously appreciative of my clients, for trusting me to document their love. It is a privilege beyond my wildest dreams. Truly..

“I just wanted to send you another quick note of thanks. The response to the photographs from family and friends has been otherworldly! I have to say I’ve probably gone back to view the pictures 100+ times (and I wish that was an exaggeration).  You captured us… our family so perfectly.  It’s really the response from everyone that means the most…’You can see the happiness and peace… The pictures are so YOU.’ And for you to see that in us… Well it’s a gift, so thank you.”

“It’s hard to see your relationship from the outside, when you are in it, and I guess this is really the first time I’ve seen Mike and I as parents, and as a couple from everyone elses vantage point. And through your photography, I’ve realized even more how special what we have is… Thank you for that gift.”

To my brides and grooms: Thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you. For including me in your love stories. And for making life so chocolaty-sweet.

I leave you with a few images of the newest sample albums to grace my shelves. If you’ve ever wondered “What, oh what do albums from Alyse French Photography look like?!” look no further than here. And f’real, I’m sure you’ve ALL thought that, right? ;)

And my brownies. :) I assure you, they were gone in no time.

Happy Friday and have a fabulous weekend!!

August 27, 2010 - 5:56 PM

jessica - thank God for His obvious goodness to you and through you!!! I am so thankful for your whole-hearted pursuit in your gifting and call!!! Your gift and His glory being made manifest in these lives and photos! i imagine the hard times and good times in each relationship…and those in the photos…well, them looking at one of your albums and being able to see the power and beauty of the lives/ their lives brought together in and through God’s perfect timing! and He has commissioned you to capture it! With His lense!! AMAZING!!!! i am confident that your gifting submitted to Him is causing a greater pusuit of Him and LOVE!! and even through the decades to come and the memories to be made and the hard/growing times to be had…well, the photos you take…they will remind us all of God’s goodness and LOVE and perfect, amazing ochestration to have brought us to the right one!!! He is good!!! and you’re beautiful pursuit of Him using your gifting is that which even now and in the future is causing and will cause those to pursue righteous living! covenent! LOVE! the deeper things!!! thank you for your example! and making your gift accessible so we can REMEMBER and see Him more!!!!

August 27, 2010 - 3:53 PM

Noël - What’s the E for on your shelf??

August 27, 2010 - 3:14 PM

Diane - You and Pam should go to the aquarium together!!!! hahha

August 27, 2010 - 1:51 PM

pam - you know i’ve never been to the aquarium downtown & am dying to take my son!

i love the books & that card is just a little too awesome. you have the most wonderful clients it seems!

August 27, 2010 - 1:50 PM

pam - you know i’ve never been to the aquarium downtown & am dying to take my son!

i love the books & that card is just a little too awesome. you have the most wonderful clients it seems!

Tidbit Tuesday #37

A year ago today I was putting off packing for school, and dreaming of the smell of brand new notebooks, planners and pens. I made my yearly list of goals to be accomplished throughout the school year. You know, the usual things that never really stuck no matter how many lists I made. 1) Drink eight 8 oz. glasses of water per day. 2) Take your multi-vitamin daily. 3) Quit cluttering your notebook with new ways to sign your name or drawing random eyeballs all over its pages. Yeah, never happened. All of this to say, SU holds its first day of classes in just a week. And I’m going to miss it..

I notice the little things. Things I swear normal people just.. don’t. Like the rims of yogurt containers. What is UP with how small they are? And yet they still manage to hide an entire spoons-worth of yogurty-goodness inside its ridges. The normal person wouldn’t mind. But I? I finish everything on my plate (slash, yogurt container) no matter the obstacles. I couldn’t tell you how many times I’ve been poked fun at by waiters who were all, “Was there EVER food on that plate?” To which I reply, “Um. I just like food?”

As photographers, we find ourselves in an industry where there’s a constant need for inspiration. Inspiration to shoot. To blog. And ultimately, to create. There are days when inspiration is hard to come by. And then, there are days like yesterday. Yesterday was the best kind of day. Because I was able to put all other things aside and finally start making this all-elusive “rebrand” come to life. There’s still a long way to go, but I’m SO happy with how far it’s come in just a day.

And speaking of inspiration and making moves, HUGE things are coming to the blog. Think Oprah’s Favorite Things. Now of course, I’m no Oprah, and I won’t go into it too much right now. But I will say this: On Sunday, September 5th, there’s only one place you’ll want to be. More to come.. :)

Song of the week: I Will Always Love You by Don Hejny. I could listen to this song about 15 times a day. I guess that means I’ve met today’s queue. :) But who would expect anything less than, say.. 30 clicks on the good ol’ replay button when it comes to any new song I fall in love with. (FYI: This is Dylan’s favorite part about the girl he married.) ;)

I had the most legit carrot cake EVER at my cousin’s wedding this past weekend. I’m talking long julienne carrots that boggled my mind. It was vegetable cake, for crying out loud. And it was fabulously delicious.

Once upon a time, Dylan and I decided we needed a show. One we could stream from NetFlix, two one-hour episodes per night, because what’s better than a little prime-time drama and cuddling on a couch much too small for the both of us? Friday Night Lights. Incredible acting. And shot so realistically. No fancy-shmancy set lighting. A ridiculous amount of jump-cuts. And camera angles so shaky you’d swear Professor Bruce Strong must have reemed out the crew for lack of tripod-use. Like I said, incredible. (Excuse me for going all nerd on you. It’s in the blood.)

And because posts without pictures are just silly, here’s a sneak of Lisa and Jonathan’s Richfield Springs, NY wedding. Coming soon to a blog near you. ;)

Happy Tuesday! :)

August 27, 2010 - 10:54 AM

Kate D - love the song. love the picture. love tidbit tuesdays. love you. love love love :)

August 24, 2010 - 5:23 PM

Noël - Great photo!!!!!
I can’t wait till Thursday to see more pics!!!!

August 24, 2010 - 2:44 PM

rae - i miss glavin.

August 24, 2010 - 2:27 PM

Stef - Haha oddly enough, I’m going to miss SU, too. I love school supplies and the first day of class and learning constantly. I won’t miss the stress, though. Or Syracuse weather.

August 24, 2010 - 11:17 AM

Jess Z - Just kidding, ONE MORE thing- Where did your bride Lisa get her dress?? I’m IN LOVE!

August 24, 2010 - 11:16 AM

Jess Z - Oh, how I LOVE when you post your favorite song because I know that it’s going to be a song that I fall in love with! I don’t think I ever told you this, but your wedding music… THE BEST. The whole time I kept telling Ryan that I wanted a copy of the list/CD of your music for my own wedding. Yay for Tuesdays! Oh and one last thing- the whole missing SU thing… not fun.

Cassara Management Wedding: Peter & Nicole

As a wedding photographer, you can get all sorts of caught up in the light, the timeline, the edits, the backups, and the uploads. But then.. Yes, then. There are the moments. The moments you catch her running up to him and whispering in his ear. He lowers his head and smiles with his eyes as he delights in his new bride. It’s as if they’re alone. A moment in the in-between.

Pete and Niki’s wedding day was full of these little moments. On more than one occasion, they caused me to step back and reflect on what this day truly meant. “But Alyse, shouldn’t that be obvious to you by now?” Perhaps.. But shooting was different for me this time around. It was different because for the first time, I knew what it felt like. The anticipation. The joy. The “YES! He’s ALL mine!” So consider this a shout out to my husband. For marrying me and thereby making me a better photographer. ;)

As for Pete and Niki – Thank you! I cannot say enough how honored I am to have documented such a sweet and important day in your lives. Thank you for your trust, your fabulous taste in every wedding detail imaginable, and for being so gosh darn beautiful together. XOXO!!

Fun little fact: I almost wore this J.Crew dress for my own wedding. :)

Niki’s aunt totally rocked OUT her hair.

Lipgloss ad, anyone?
Meet Brooke Fraser‘s twin sister, Dana. Absolutely beautiful in every way.

And the sweetest flower girl ever, Miss Sadie.

Niki, you are exquisite.
Love this sequence of the groom and his future brother primping a bit before the ceremony.
Every piece of this wedding was J.Crew. Hence, the vest and tie below. Stay classy, Pete.
Niki’s bouquet was in-SANE. Special thanks to Rockcastle Florist.
Sweetest moment of the day. I sure remember what this feels like. :)
When Niki and Pete stole a glance at each other during the opening prayer, my heart melted. The two also shared communion together. Sweet, sweet, sweet!
Pete’s father performed the ceremony. Just look at him. I think he’s happy or something. :) 
My favorite kind of exit. :)
Details all around make me a happy girl. :)
And black diamonds might just be a girl’s best friend.
Thank da’ LORD for warm, buttery light in the middle of the forest.
I’ve been staring at this picture for about 10 minutes, wracking my brain for synonyms of “beautiful,” “stunning,” “ow owww.” But alas, I cannot think of any.
LOVE this diptych.
This?
Or this?
I call it, “Best Friends.”
Caught this little one on the porch. Just precious, isn’t she?
Pete’s older brother Joe gave one of the BEST best man speeches I’ve ever heard. And believe you me, I’ve been to a wedding or two. 
Niki and her dad, groovin’ to it!
These moments are what make me love my job most.
I can honestly understand the confusion in the picture on the left. Where, oh where are you supposed to cut a cake worth hundreds of dollars?? Conundrum, indeed.
I leave you with Niki, tearing it up and looking fabulous. :)

Happy Thursday!

August 19, 2010 - 10:34 PM

Rochelle - This is beautiful Alyse. You really do know how to capture these beautiful moments quite nicely…:)

August 19, 2010 - 7:27 PM

Noël - Love them Love them Love them!!!!!!!!

August 19, 2010 - 3:30 PM

kelly - oh man! this wedding was simply beautiful! i love the birdcages and little details!

August 19, 2010 - 12:11 PM

Diane - perfection…that’s all

August 19, 2010 - 10:45 AM

Jessamyn - I’m in awe – i simply don’t know what to say. Your work gets better every time and yet that’s not possible because its already the best there is!!! Also – where do you find such stunning couples – gosh they’re all gorgesou?!!! Though I’m convinced that you could take the most ugly of people and they would be absolutely gorgeous when you were done!!! I LOVE your work, Alyse – LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!!!

August 19, 2010 - 8:22 AM

Jessica Z - omg Alyse… I’ve loved your work from the beginning, but honestly, this wedding is AMAZING. I know I say that an awful lot, but I’m at a loss for any other words. It’s just… completely and utterly GORGEOUS! <3

August 19, 2010 - 7:37 AM

André - Unbelievably beautiful work… Alyse, you amaze me!

August 19, 2010 - 7:34 AM

rae - i think this is my favorite wedding you’ve done so far – other than nikki and seth of course ;) really….amazing.

August 19, 2010 - 7:24 AM

Breanna - LOVE THESE.. they came out beautiful!!!

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